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Welcome to RaisingBoysandGirls.com!

We'd like to introduce ourselves to you. Our names are Melissa Trevathan, Sissy Goff and David Thomas. We're counselors in Nashville, Tennessee with a combined 75+ years of counseling kids and families. We work at a place called Daystar Counseling Ministries, or, as one boy called it, The Little Yellow House that Helps People. There, along with a staff of thirteen friends who are also co-workers and four very talented pet therapists, we currently counsel 1300 children, teens and families. Out of our work at Daystar, we have had the tremendous opportunity to write several books and offer seminars for parents and educators across the country. We are honored every day to speak into the lives of children, teens and parents at Daystar, as well as other communities. And we are grateful you found your way to our website. 

We hope these pages will be an opportunity for us to get to come alongside you in your parenting. We want to reach beyond the walls of our counseling offices at Daystar and into your homes...to encourage you, to laugh with you, to share with you what we feel is going on in the hearts of children, teens, and parents, and mostly, to bring you hope in your journey. We are grateful for who you are and how you love the children whose lives you touch. 


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This week, we talked a lot about fear and trust.  And the difference between the two.  And how those differences were walked out in the lives of two guys named Caleb and Joshua.  Caleb and Joshua were guys who heard and trusted God, despite what was going on around and even inside of them. 

As 5th and 6th graders, things are changing a lot for you.  You are beginning to see more and feel much more than you ever have before.  Something that didn’t bother you in second grade starts to bother you now.  You worry about what people think—and especially, what they think about you.  It happens to all of us. 

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Parenting is a challenging, delightful, heart-wrenching journey that can feel profoundly overwhelming and lonely at times. Parents need guides who understand the world of their children. We are happy to come along side you in this journey.

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