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Capable
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Learn practical tools for raising capable, resilient kids from bestselling authors David Thomas and Sissy Goff.
Kids Are in Crisis
Not only has their mental health declined significantly, but they have also become more socially anxious and isolated. Technology and social media are compounding the crisis.
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Something Has Got to Change
In over thirty years of counseling kids and families, we've never been more concerned—but we also believe there's a better, more capable way. For you both.
What We Want You to Know
Sturdy is better than successful.
We want kids to develop internal strength that lasts, more than external achievements that fade.
Healthy is more important than happy.
When happiness is the goal, kids have too much power. When health is the goal, they find what they need.
Resilience lasts longer than relief or rescue.
When we rescue kids from discomfort, we rob them of the internal strength to develop that will be required throughout their lives.
Capable has more weight than confident.
When true capability is discovered, kids will experience both the competence and confidence that will help them thrive.
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